Written by a Man

LADIES, listen up!

Nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition/spirit/inner voice to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then shit no, we can't "be friends."
A true friend, someone who's real, wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle for less.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Remember feminine energy is psychic energy. Men think logic. Women feel for answers.
It was a woman who ruled Egypt.
A woman's love can make a man change the world.
Women have magnetic energy. Men electric. Love is a short magnetic wave length.
Men do themselves injustice having sex with no pure love and affection.
They don't reach the inner cosmic way of enlightenment.
They are holding back certain electric energy and lose the real pure experience of a greater love...
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better - holding you back from your own personal achievements, dreams, goals and desires...
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up. Hold it back and you are holding a negative energy.
People die from cancer or have ulcers from holding negative ENERGY.
It's actual physical energy, which you don't realize, that can disrupt your own journey or destiny in life.
You should be possessed by love, not possess love.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. Or throw it in your face. We all make mistakes.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education, a better job, lots of money and connections in this materialistic, egotistical world. He is still a man, nothing more nothing less. It's your own inner development and spirituality and heart that matters. And money can never buy that!!!!!!

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. Never let him define who you are. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. It's about human interaction. It's why we are here. To learn and love one another.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Rethink your choices - prepare. Women have powers of attraction.
Why do you think, they have been oppressed for centuries???
You are more in a hyper dimensional sort of way. You have innate powers within.
While you wait for love, focus on you. The inner you.
You can travel the astral planes. Talk with animals. Levitate.
There is too much to you to be wasted on someone who takes away that focus of energy and hurts you.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

- Male Author Unkown